its just a matter of choice....

We are all given choices to make. Sometimes, we are lucky to get the right one and unfortunately, sometimes our wrong decisions ruin our plans or even our whole life.Isn't ironic that the one we think is right could possibly be the wrong one and the one we just take for granted could be the best option. And do you think it's unfair that we risk everything just to have what we want and all of a sudden, our hardships will turn into trash and be disregarded just because of the wrong steps or options we choose. Well, that's life and it's irony.

In our life, we always want to be well-prepared,to have the best, in short, we want everything to be perfect. But eventhough we want to, circumtances doesnt go the way we want it to be. It sometimes contradicts even the best plans and alternatives we have. It sometimes affects even the persons behind it and the things around it. And at the end of the day, we're here to start all over again. Its very hard to think of new plans specially when we experienced to fall in our first step, when we witnessed everything being rejected, what hurts us most is when we give everything just to make everything fine yet still did not succeed. It's very difficult to accept how our efforts turn into crap.Obviously, we will feel bad about it, like everyone does! It sometimes becomes the reason to stop. We are starting to become fessimistic. It should not be like that. There are lots of reason why we should continue. Just imagine all the sacrifices, efforts and time you just have invested, plus the people who will benefit from it. Circumstances doesnt always give a negative result, do remember that your success still lies in how your mind and hands will work. Meaning, you are still in control of everything..

After the failures and sacrifices, the first step to do is moving on. And the first step in moving on is to be more stronger and faithful. It is also the right time to realize that patience also matters. Just continue believing that we can conquer everything if have the right attitudes to lessen the failures, because its hard to fight against circumstances, besides its really unavoidable. Experience always teaches us the best things to do. And remember that most of our success, we owe it to the failures and pains we have encountered.
If that is really your passion, just keep believing because everything happens for a reason.

Thursday, July 03, 2008, 12:10:20 PM